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Relational
Evangelism
  • and articulating your testimony of faith
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The Gospel: the good news, the divine message of salvation in Christ Jesus
  • Evangelism: the communication of that message
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Isn’t “presence evangelism” enough?
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Evangelistic
approaches
  • Mass
    • Inspirational
    • Settings
      • Invitations in local church services
      • Crusade-type events
  • One on one
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Does personal evangelism
have to feel so impositional?
  • Sharing your faith shouldn’t be hard on your neighbor’s dental work
  • Graphic from an ad for Asbury Theological Seminary
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"“Faith does"
  • “Faith does, on occasion, arise -- partly because of us and partly in spite of us” -- Brueggemann
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One on one evangelistic approaches
  • Cup of cold water – expressing tangibly who Christ is
  • Invitational – “come with me”
  • Prophetic – “the Bible says”
  • Apologetic – point by point logic
  • Testimonial –
      • “One thing I do know: I was blind but now I see”
  • Relational – friendships
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Relational evangelism
  • Evangelism that is intentional about bringing the Good News to someone in the context of a relationship
  • A majority of believers have come to faith in the context of a network of friends and family
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Relational ministry isn’t a monorail event in which content is the only issue
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Relational evangelism’s two rails
  • Content (Gospel)
  • Incarnational (Our lives)
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So, what’s incarnational about it?
  • The unbeliever comes to see Christ through His incarnation in the believer
          • Latin lesson:  incarnation = “to make flesh; infleshment”

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The content rail Gospel definition
  • Example gospel presentations
    • Evangelism explosion
      • God, Human beings, sin, grace, salvation
    • Four spiritual laws
    • Roman road
    • Gospel bracelets
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Four spiritual laws
  • God loves you and wants to establish a relationship with you
      • John 3:16
  • Sin separates you from God
      • Romans 3:23; 6:23
  • Jesus is the “bridge”
      • Romans 5:8
  • You must come to Christ and accept His lordship
      • Romans 10:9-10
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Roman Road
  • Romans 3:23
  • Romans 6:23
  • Romans 5:8
  • Romans 10:9-10
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The incarnational rail
  • “We have souls that thrive in the warmth of kindred spirits. . . .God wired us this way, and because of that wiring we have the capacity for relationships” --Doug Fields
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Relational or incarnational evangelism:
  • Is step-by-step (but not the step-by-step of the prophetic “the Bible says” approach)
    • Evangelism strategist George Hunter:
      • “Conversion typically results from a ‘chain’ of experiences.  The number of significant experiences in that chain is typically about 30 links.”
    • Relational evangelism creates those links
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What were the links in your life?
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Relational or incarnational evangelism:
  • Its intentional focus on friendship places a high value on people
      • “Every person has a right to hear the Gospel in a way that they can understand” – Jim Rayburn, Young Life
  • Earns you the right to be heard
      • Relationship produces:
        • Respect
        • A sense of safety
        • Conviction that you care
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"Recognizes God’s prevenient grace is..."
  • Recognizes God’s prevenient grace is always present
        • Latin lesson:  pre-venir = grace that “comes before”
        • The Lord goes before us and prepares the way
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Relational or incarnational evangelism:
  • Is an intentional transforming journey involving a process
    • Takes patience
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The listening part of relational evangelism
  • Listen. Listen.  Listen . . . And really hear.
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Relational speech
  • Be simple
    • Never underestimate other people’s intelligence
    • Never overestimate their knowledge
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Relational speech
  • Makes Christ central
    • “My propositional truths are more correct than your propositional truths”
  • Looks to take conversation to a deeper level
      • “Wouldn’t you like to believe in something?”
      • “Does God (or a Higher Power) seem personal to you?”
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Where relational evangelism can go wrong
  • Wrong motivations
    • Notch on the gun
      • An extremely thin covering of “relational” on our evangelism
    • Ego trip
    • Examples?
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Where relational evangelism can go wrong
  • Losing sight of the goal
    • The human relationship becomes the end
      • “It makes me a little queasy to think about all the junk that gets tossed our way in the name of ‘relational evangelism’“-- Art Rogers
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Where relational evangelism can go wrong
  • Assuming our ”presence” is enough - never using the content rail
    • Danger:  Giving the impression that we are the source of our spiritual life
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"“I’m not going to..."
  • “I’m not going to suggest a new formula, because . . . techniques aren’t the most effective, especially for friends.
  • “Have you ever thought of looking more deeply at the life of Jesus?
  • “If you live by the same priorities and values that He had, you will find evangelism happening naturally. It becomes a lifestyle and not a project.”
      • Out of the Saltshaker, by Becky Pippert
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Relational
Evangelism
  • and Articulating Your
  • Personal Testimony


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Prayer must blanket  incarnational evangelism
  • Prayer for:
    • Communicator
      • transparency
    • Message
      • clarity
    • Recipient
      • responsiveness
  • Fasting and Prayer